The song I’m talking about plays in the bg of the entire scene starting @4:43.
Still cannot fucking find it to this day.
Has anyone ever seen Jungle Fish 2?
There was this one song that played during one of Joon’s scenes and it was a cover of a song called “Alone Again, Naturally”
I know the song was sung by an Korean artist but for the life of me I still cannot find that cover. It was a slow jazz version too.
This damn Mood Bungalow song is like that all over again.
That song is gonna haunt me forever too.
Am I the only one who gets confused when people actually recognize KPOP idols?
I mean honestly, and I mean honestly, I would not recognize any fucking KPOP idol ever. There would be times where I would be like hey they look familiar but other than that no.
It’s just with the fact that pictures distort the face and when you put something into 2D that was 3D it looks entirely different when you put it back into 3D.
Other than the fact I prolly would eye them down because I would find them attractive who they were would be completely lost on my ass. xD
I know for sure that would be me. I don’t see them outside the idol stage. I don’t really care much for them outside of the stage… Off stage they’re just any normal person like you and me so I don’t feel like I have to be on the look out for them when they’re just being their regular self.
I don’t even know why in the hell anyone would be out looking for them. That’s called stalking in what I’m sure is a good 50 countries. Just saying. That topped with the fact you should be too busy doing whatever the hell it is that you need to do to notice an idol anyways.
I’m more likely to be the chick getting into a conflict with an idol than I am to actually be knowing who the hell they are. lol
At the end of the day it comes down to the fact that you shouldn’t glorify people who let’s be honest, without a great deal of help, would not look the way they look. You would look that way too if you have cameramen and a shitload of help.
You look stupid trying to glorify people who are in reality no better than you. They are still human and they still put their pants on one leg at a time.
I never understood trying to compare two people. They are two different people with two different histories and two different lives. What purpose does it serve?
Take a damn seat.
Flapjack State: how to decode a person with an anxiety disorder
things we are trying to do all the time:
- be safe
things we can’t help but do all the time:
- second-guess ourselves
- behave impulsively and reactively
- take everything personally
- worry
- worry
- worry
- have difficulty accepting compliments
- have difficulty reciprocating friendly gestures
- have difficulty finding the courage to respond
- have difficulty not being suspicious of others’ intentions
- make a huge deal out of the smallest thing
things you should keep in mind:
- we’re scared of everything
- pretty much all of the time
- it’s an actual disorder
- it manifests as impulsive behavior
- you can’t fix us with words
- telling us “worrying is silly” won’t make us stop worrying
- it’ll only make us feel silly
- and then we’ll worry even more
- “oh god, am i worrying too much? what if they call me silly again?”
- like that
- also, we wear a lot of armor
- cold, heavy, affection-proof armor with spikes
- we constructed this armor as children
- we’re fairly certain you will never be able to pry it apart
- but there is a nice person under there, we promise
things you can do for a friend with an anxiety disorder:
- stick around
- ask them if they’re comfortable in a place or situation
- be willing to change the place or situation if not
- activities that help them take their mind off of things are good!
- talk to them even when they might not talk back
- (they’re probably too afraid to say the wrong thing)
- try not to take their reactions (or lack thereof) personally
- (the way they expresses themself is distorted and bent because of their constant fear)
- (and they knows this)
- give them time to respond to you
- they will obsess over how they are being interpreted
- they will anticipate being judged
- it took me four hours just to type this much
- even though i sound casual
- that’s because i have an anxiety disorder
things you shouldn’t do:
- tell us not to worry
- tell us we’ll be fine
- mistake praise for comfort
- ask us if we are “getting help”
- force us to be social
- force us to do things that trigger us
- “face your fears” doesn’t always work
- because—remember—scared of everything
- in fact, it would be more accurate to say we are scared of the fear itself
emergency action procedure for panic attacks:
- be calm
- be patient
- don’t be condescending
- remind us that we’re not “crazy”
- sit with us
- ask us to tighten and relax our muscles one by one
- remind us that we are breathing
- engage us in a discussion (if we can talk, then we can breathe)
- if we are having trouble breathing, try getting us to exhale slowly
- or breathe through our nose
- or have us put our hands on our stomach to feel each breath
- ask us what needs to change in our environment in order for us to feel safe
- help us change it
- usually, just knowing that we have someone on our side willing to fight our scary monsters with us is enough to calm us down
if you have an anxiety disorder:
- it’s okay.
- even if you worry that it’s not okay.
- it’s still okay. it’s okay to be scared. it’s okay to be scared of being scared.
- you are not crazy. you are not a freak.
- i know there’s a person under all that armor.
- and i know you feel isolated because of it.
- i won’t make you take it off.
- but know that you are not alone.
♥
gender-neutral version
everyoneloveskim replied to your post: Can people allow me enjoy Yunho in peace? Does…
wait. did I just read this right? Ari wants to enjoy Yunho? As in Jung Yunho? What.…
We all know I have a secret crush on the greatness that is Yunho. It’s just Jaejoong that I have issues with.
Don’t be trying to rub that in :P
of course of course not
I wouldn’t do that ari ^^
OTL.
I knew admitting this would be a problem.
Am I the only one who gets confused when people actually recognize KPOP idols?
I mean honestly, and I mean honestly, I would not recognize any fucking KPOP idol ever. There would be times where I would be like hey they look familiar but other than that no.
It’s just with the fact that pictures distort the face and when you put something into 2D that was 3D it looks entirely different when you put it back into 3D.
Other than the fact I prolly would eye them down because I would find them attractive who they were would be completely lost on my ass. xD
I know for sure that would be me. I don’t see them outside the idol stage. I don’t really care much for them outside of the stage… Off stage they’re just any normal person like you and me so I don’t feel like I have to be on the look out for them when they’re just being their regular self.
I don’t even know why in the hell anyone would be out looking for them. That’s called stalking in what I’m sure is a good 50 countries. Just saying. That topped with the fact you should be too busy doing whatever the hell it is that you need to do to notice an idol anyways.
I’m more likely to be the chick getting into a conflict with an idol than I am to actually be knowing who the hell they are. lol
lmao i tried to do the whole stalking outside the buildings thing when i was in korea…
i did it like… twice…it was sooooo fucking boring… like… why would you sit outside and hope that you might see a glimpse…A GLIMPSE!! i mean thats it… like really? you spend hours and days out there and you might only get like a hi?
I mean… i got lucky lol JYP said hi to us when we were fans from america and Nickhun also said hi and we got a pic with GNA but like… that was like all in 5 hours… of just standing there in the cold. Why would you waste your time there?!?
I don’t get it. I really don’t.
I got a damn life. That isn’t going to ever happen. EVER.
If an idol wants to see me they can bump into my ass, cut me in line, annoy me or just blatantly be an condescending asswipe to someone and let me see it, then they will see my ass.
Other than that, I guess we are never gonna meet then. I don’t have time for that shit. lol
myfanwyy replied to your post: Since you like the zodiac, what do you like and dislike about each zodiac sign?
Aries stubbornness comes in handy sometimes though!It does lol.
But it’s only when it doesn’t make them ignorant and I want to slap the fuck out of them. xD
Junsu is King of Body Rolls with Hip Thrusting at the end.
There is no other.
He is also King of Floorwork too.
Man clearly rolls with the strippers. lol
